Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Give Me advice PLEASE!!!! A MOMMY rant
I can tell that today is gonna be one of those days where strangers feel like giving me parental advice whether I want it or NOT. When I take both kids places, people assume that I have no idea what I am doing. First, I have been a parent long enough to know what to do with my kids. Nash is three. Three year olds have a tendency to be curious and want to try things. Plus Nash is very independent and VERY emotional. Those breakdowns he likes to have in public, is because he is sensitive to everything. Conner is behind. He is developmentally DELAYED. He functions on a two year old level but is the size of a six year old. DO NOT come tell me that he does not need to sit in a buggy. He should be down walking and talking. DO NOT tell me what I should make him do when you see me put him in the car. Strangers making simple comments can be useful. Try this product. My kids like this juice or this diaper wipe (YES CONNER IS STILL IN DIAPERS)!!!! Little things can help-BUT DO NOT tell me what I am doing wrong. And if one more person tells me to mix Conner's vitamin (Co-Q 10) with food or juice I am gonna ram the closest item down their throat. He is sensitive to tastes as well as touch and illness and sound and everything else. I have been his parent since he was born. I have been his parent since I had him. Do you really think I do not know what I am doing ( I don't but I have a better idea than someone who did not raise him)!!!!! I wonder why I have a tendency to state my mind. I wonder why I am so cranky with ADULTS :0 I love being around kids. They are more polite and understanding to other children than the adults that raise them. Next time you choose to give me or other parents advice about the kids with them, consider: is there a reason for what they are doing, and how would it feel for someone to say that to me.
0 comments:
Post a Comment